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This is how you stimulate his penis with a mind-blowing lingam massage

Miriam

28-10-2021 · 1011 views · 0 comments

Do you want to spoil your partner? Treat him to a lovely lingam massage! With this penis massage, you don’t just fiddle around with your hands, but you really pamper him. With the following tips, you can give the best lingam massage!

What’s a lingam massage?

Lingam is a Sankrit word that symbolises the male genitalia. It’s a part of tantric massage and therefore focuses on transforming sexual energy into power and life energy. A lingam massage isn’t intended to make your partner cum; instead, it improves the energy flows in the body and promotes sexual energy.

How can you give a lingam massage?

1. Make sure he’s relaxed

Ask your partner to lie on his back with a pillow under his head. If necessary, put a towel beneath him. Create a warm and pleasant atmosphere in the room. You can do this by lighting (scented) candles and putting on some quiet, soft music. Apps like Spotify offer a wide choice of massage music. Ask your partner to breathe deeply from his belly. Let him spread his legs so that his penis and balls are completely exposed and then take place between his legs.

2. Use lubricant

Apply a generous amount of lubricant to your hands and warm it by rubbing your hands together. Make sure you use enough lubricant. Do not use massage oil, as you’ll be massaging the penis later. Ordinary massage oil can cause irritation to the genitals, so to avoid having to interrupt the massage to wash your hands before continuing, it’s better to use lubricant right away. There are lubricants in handy pumps and special massage lubricants. It’s best to use silicone-based lubricants, as they dry out less quickly.

3. Do not start with his penis

With a lingam massage, it’s important to work slowly towards the penis. Look deeply into his eyes and then massage his neck and shoulders first. You can make stroking or kneading movements. Then stroke his chest and massage his pectoral muscles. Before you move on to his penis, you can do his legs. Massage his shins and thighs firmly. Once you reach his genitals, massage his groin extensively. As the groin is sensitive, simply stroking with your hands is sufficient.

4. Let the penis massage begin

You can now move on to his pubic area. Make sure you use enough lubricant. Continue massaging the groin from time to time. Don’t go straight to his penis shaft yet, but first massage his balls. You can take them in the palm of your hand, stroke them with your fingers, and then pull them lightly. Note: not every man likes this. You can ask him from time to time if he likes it. Pay attention to his posture and look, which can tell you more about how he likes it. You can also stroke his perineum. This is the area between his scrotum and his anus. For instance, you can stroke his perineum with your thumbs while massaging his groin and pubic area with your other fingers.

5. On to the penis shaft

Now turn to the penis proper. Keep in mind that this massage is different from a regular hand job. You proceed very slowly throughout the massage. There are several massage techniques you can use:

The kneader: grab his shaft with both hands and give it a squeeze. Squeeze gently and a little harder, and ask him what he likes.
The glans salute: For this technique, use one finger. With your other hand, take the penis shaft. Use the finger of the other hand to make small circular movements over the head of his penis. Don’t forget the frenulum. The frenulum is where the foreskin meets the underside of the penis. It looks like a small V just below the head. Part of it usually remains if the man’s cut.
The wringer: grasp the shaft with both hands along its entire length (as far as possible) and very carefully make a wringing movement, each hand turning in a different direction.
The milking technique: Use both hands for this technique. Start at the base and cover his penis with your hands. Let your hands slide upwards one by one – past the head of his penis – and start again from the base.
The corkscrew: Hold one hand at the base and cover his penis shaft with the other. Move your hand gently upwards in a twisting motion. Make an additional twisting movement at just his glans, as if you were opening a bottle cap.
The skier: use both thumbs. Start at the base of his scrotum and slide your thumbs up to the glans one by one. Repeat these movements as if your thumbs were “skiing” over his shaft.

Ask him from time to time if he likes what you’re doing, but don’t overload him with too many questions so that he can remain relaxed and enjoy. Don’t forget to massage his pubic area, groin, and perhaps his thighs every once in a while.

“Ask him from time to time if he likes what you’re doing, but don’t overwhelm him with too many questions.”

6. Optional: massaging the sacred spot

Some men love it when their prostate is stimulated. The prostate is a small organ that can cause intense feelings of pleasure when stimulated. The prostate is located about 5 cm deep on the side of his abdomen. When you insert one or two fingers into his anus, you’ll feel a thickening: this is the prostate.

You can massage this spot with one or two fingers. Chances are he’ll have an intense climax! Is your man not used to prostate stimulation or even anus stimulation? Then massaging the prostate might be too much for him. Clarify beforehand whether he wants it or not. If he doesn’t, just leave it at a penis massage. If he does, make sure you use enough lubricant to make the massage comfortable for him.

7. Ending the lingam massage

You can continue until he comes, but it’s not necessary, as orgasm is not the aim of a lingam massage. At the end of the massage, you can stroke your hands from his crotch up to his chest and heart to distribute the sexual energy all over his body. You can now choose to rest or move on to other sexual acts.

Was your partner happy with the lingam massage you gave? Tell your story in a comment below and inspire others!

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This is how you stimulate his penis with a mind-blowing lingam massage

What’s a lingam massage?